Showing posts with label Read and smile. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Read and smile. Show all posts

Tuesday, July 13, 2010

A SPARKLING ANECDOTE

               A flash of light glared my eye. Suddenly, I found myself into this conscious world. I tried to remember where I am right now, only to find myself on the streets of my hometown. A tear drop rolled down my eye, there must have been a dribble of such drops. My eyes were misty. Disturbed, perturbed and vexed by thoughts of my future, I had lost my power of thought. My power of analysis seemed to be waning. It had been a tough day; in fact instances that very well challenged my little self.

               Mediocre performance in every step of life. I didn’t know what my mettle was. People say everybody has a talent. I didn’t know my talent. I was just flowing and moving on, as my life moved on. It was not what I wanted, but it was what my life wanted. And a plethora of questions, but nobody to answer. It never happened with me before, and I couldn’t understand myself. Nobody cared to think about me so much, so as to make me realize my talent.

                I noticed some struggling people on the road. People who fought day in and day out just to survive and flourish, with a hope of getting prosperity one day. Here are some of them:-
• A labour (maybe) had a very sound sleep on the footpath, felt as if a heaven for him.
• A vendor who used to sell some sweets had a very bad day and was counting his pennies.
• An auto rickshaw stopped by me looking for a passenger desperately for his vacant vehicle.
• A small child carried four buckets brimming with water, on a cycle.
• A handicapped person with no legs was on a block of wood with four wheels and moved slowly.
• A carpenter was working overtime and was desperate for a very small project.
• A rickshaw puller with three passengers and two extra children, tried to wrap up his days’ work with the best deal.

                These people were very simple people but seemed like warriors. I was startled to see their energy, their ebullience. It was a kind of overwhelming feeling. Anyway, I had failed in an interview and my failure seemed to be dwindling down because of these buoyant personalities.

                It started raining, a perfect time of the year for the rains to come. The ambience became so tranquil that I could hear the rain drops falling. People started running for shelter and I don’t know why, but these rains came as a joyful surprise to me. Maybe, because my tears were lost in these rain droplets. I wanted to enjoy the rain but the grave aspects of life had to be given a good thought. I decided to walk down to my home.

               I reached home; my small little puppy sprang upon me and licked me, tried desperately to flaunt his new ball. I was very upset, at the opportunity I missed and messed that day. I went to the bathroom, had a quick shower and yelled “Mom, feeling hungry, had a very tough day”. I didn’t want to do anything, I just switched on the television and it was the “Discovery channel”. I was just shocked to see how people reach the North Pole, where the temperature is 50 degrees below the zero degree (the temperature at which water freezes). Icy storms that end in two or three days. “What drives them to reach there?” This question puzzled me and I switched off the television.

                I had great food, but there were many questions that had to be answered before I slept that day. I asked my mother to oil and massage my head. I don’t know but it definitely has some magic that can charm and invigorate you. I asked my mother, “Mummy, why do people want to live when they have nothing with them?” What an innocent question from a son to his mother!! She replied, “When people have everything with them, then they have nothing to live for. It is the problems that make a human life interesting”. Too stodgy at that instant, I got it though. What followed was a night awakening introspection and retrospection.

                 “Gaurav, get up!!!! It’s very late, here’s your newspaper”, my mother said. I always have a habit of welcoming my new day with a newspaper. I tried to recollect what happened yesterday and my spirits circumscribed. I read my horoscope, which I believe is incumbent for everyone; I rushed to the editorial section. I was reading an article and had a feeling of déjà vu. “It’s my article”, I squalled at the top of my voice in exhilaration. I was so delighted to see my article right up there. I was extremely happy and yes it was a matter of pride. My cell phone rang and a very heavy voice comes from the other side. “Well done, boy!!!! You have your space here and you’re working with us now”, said the editor of ‘The Indian Express’.

                 “This was my mettle, this was my talent,” I realised. Just above my article I saw a quotation from William Shakespeare. “Sweet are the uses of adversity which, like the toad, ugly and venomous, wears yet a precious jewel in his head”. I wondered it was for me. I quickly went to my mother touched her feet, called up my father and said “Papa!!! Your son is working with the Indian Express now”.

Saturday, June 19, 2010

A REALISATION BEYOND IMAGINATION !!!!!

I slapped the snooze alarm for the third time and finally opened my eyes only to find myself in my hostel room. Last night had been a late one. I don’t remember how it first struck my mind but I got a deep insight when a number of instances around me...started coming up. I frantically thought about such instances and came across several real-life experiences that can just make you feel delighted. You might have not thought about it but you can always experience around you.

            “LOVE” ,the meaning is so deep, intense and touching that its truly undefined. Then there’s other side, there’s no meaning of true love, if you look for a meaning then its not LOVE infact.. So, that makes me perplexed…whether to look out for a meaning or not. I gave up all these thoughts and this is what I thought after that :-

  • A smiling baby and her mother – the true definition of love. So pure!!! So unblemished !!! So true!!! The motive of each kind of love should be to reach this level of purity.
  • When my grandmother got arthritis, she couldn't bend over and paint her toenails anymore. So my grandfather did it for her all the time, even when his hands got arthritis too. That's love.
  • Love is what makes you smile when you're tired.
  • Love is when my mummy makes coffee for my daddy and she takes a sip before giving it to him, to make sure the taste is OK
  • Love is when you tell a guy you like his shirt, then he wears it everyday.
  • In my class 6th,during one of my class presentations ,I was on the stage and scared. Among all the people sitting, I could only see my father waving and smiling at me. He was the only one doing that , I was not scared anymore..
  • Love is when your puppy licks your face even after you left him alone all day.
  • An author and lecturer once talked about a contest he was asked to judge. The purpose of the contest was to find the most caring child. The winner was a 4 year old child whose next door neighbor was an elderly gentleman who had recently lost his wife.               Upon seeing the man cry, the little boy went into the old gentleman's yard, climbed onto his lap, and just sat there. When his Mother asked him what he had said to the neighbor, the little boy said, "Nothing, I just helped him cry."

Love is patient and kind. Love is not jealous or boastful or proud or rude. Love does not demand its own way. Love is not irritable, and it does not keep record of when it has been wronged. It is never glad about injustice but rejoices when truth wins out. Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through all circumstances. Love will last forever.

I went through a divine realisation that night..love is “An Elixir of LIFE” is what I ended up with.. We have lost ourselves to the materialistic world. Money,fame,power is all we thrive for but have we ever realised the true essence of life?? The obvious answer is “NO”.

A sterling pleasure!!!

                                                  
                                          I am tired of reading depressing front page news –of corrupt politicians and racism. Some part of country facing drought and other’s facing floods. Of helpless senior citizens being murdered in their homes and children fighting over college admissions.
                                         
                                          I am tired of the daily grind. All of us pushing and shoving to reach the finishing line in this rat race of life. Semesters passing by and so the college life. Scowling into computer screens . I need a break from it all. I think we all do.
                                         
                                          I make a list of some very tiny stuffs that bring joy…maybe for an instant though. Some ravishing things you would love to do. For the next few minutes, forget those big dreams you are chasing. Let’s unearth the hedonism in you. Let’s revel instead, in some small moments that bring us joy. Here are they(with no particular order):

  • Listening to the beautiful melody of the flute seller on Sunday mornings.
  • Eating a chocolate at anytime you feel(only if you are not dieting)- rain or shine, day or night, happy or sad.
  • Buying flowers for no reasons at all.
  • Watching the unabandoned , dancing of street children when a wedding procession goes by.
  • Singing along loudly to any of your favourite song, while your headphones on.
  • Babies-their smell, their smile, their yawn, their toes.
  • A soft pillow and a freshly laundered bed sheet.
  • Watching an elderly couple having a stroll down the moonlight.
  • Finding a forgotten 100 rupee note in your back pocket
  • Giving a beggar something very good to eat.
  • Passing a smile to a stranger and receiving back the same.


                                               Small acts of kindness can actually make you feel like a good person. We all smile in the same language. It costs us nothing. Sometimes, we get so tired of our life’s burdens that we forget how a good smile feels. So, lift your spirits up and find something small that makes you happy . And SMILE.